Curiosity and interest are superpowers. Whatever it is you wish to gain an understanding of, you should ask about it.

• What are the steps towards adding more value to the business and earning more responsibility?
• How can I be a better spouse?
• How can I be a better friend?
• How can I learn more about this?

Before you ask though, make an effort – think about it from their perspective (AI can help here too). Take the steps you expect they would recommend. Then after doing that, still ask – don’t remain in the dark, leaving it to chance. But now you are asking from a place of having put an effort first. This will do you wonders in both personal relationships and at work.

You might just get some Honest Feedback that could change everything for you (if you act on it).